Sunday, May 13, 2007

Happy Mother's Day!


I love this day - I love celebrating with my wonderful husband and beautiful children. I have been so blessed to be given these two amazing children. I have never enjoyed a day as much as it realizes that what I do is the most wonderful job in the world. Chris is making dinner, the kids each made me gifts at school and we spent the day together as a family.
I also called my mom today. This year, I looked at her really differently. If any of you had the opportunity to watch Oprah on Friday, Demi Moore was on and she discussed her dysfunctional relationship with her mother. She said something that was particularly interesting to me. When her mother was dying she said that she was hoping to get an apology for the childhood she had and the way her mother treated her. But when her mother died, instead of getting an apology, her mother took with her what was hers. Whatever wrongdoings her mother did to her she took with her and Demi no longer had anywhere she could push her anger, frustration or negativity. That was Demi's to hang on to. She said "Forgive, before its too late, because once they are gone, they are gone. There is nowhere to push your negative feelings." The other thing she said was that this mother's day she's going to ask her mother to forgive her for her "righteousness" as a daughter. What a great message for me - and my mom is still here so I have time to get it right with her.
So, tell me - did you all have a wonderful mother's day? To all my dear friends who are mothers I wish you a wonderful day. The job is long and hard but the most fulfilling thing you will ever experience.
When God thought of mothers, He must have laughed with satisfaction and framed it quickly - so rich, so deep, so divine, so full of soul, power and beauty was the conception.--Henry Ward Beecher

5 comments:

Laura said...

Happy Mother's Day to you to Mona. What a beautiful message you posted.
Have a great week.

Lacintha said...

Happy Momma's day to you too Mona!
Powerful message,and I'm happy that you're making changes in your relationship with your own mom...Have a great week!

Stacy said...

great quote girl!!! i wish iwould have seen oprah on friday that would have been a great interview!

Carmen said...

Happy belated Mother's Day to you!! I did not see Oprah but now I wish I had... Very powerful what Demi had to say. Something to think about, for all relationships we have here on earth...

Heather M. said...

I love what Demi shared - so TRUE! Thanks for sharing.
I'm so glad you had a great Mother's Day! It is the hardest job in the world but also the most rewarding.